Jen and her husband, both in their 70s, were eagerly preparing to attend the wedding of their youngest granddaughter, Eloise. Having already celebrated the marriages of their four other grandchildren, the couple looked forward to making Eloise’s day special. Little did she know, the couple had a family tradition of buying the least expensive item on the wedding registry and then surprising each grandchild with a generous check for $40,000.
When Eloise discovered that her grandparents had purchased an air fryer—the cheapest item on her registry—she was furious. She immediately called Jen, upset over what she saw as a thoughtless gift.
“Really, Grandma? An air fryer? That’s the cheapest thing on my list!” she scolded over the phone.
Jen tried to keep the surprise under wraps, calmly responding, “It’s a very useful gift.”
“Useful?” Eloise snapped back. “You could do better than that. You have the money, everyone knows that. It’s embarrassing that you’d be so cheap with me!”
Trying to explain, Jen finally hinted, “Maybe we are cheap and old. But perhaps what you didn’t know is that we were planning to give you a check for $40,000 the day before your wedding.”
Eloise, still frustrated, dismissed her grandmother’s response, hanging up abruptly, convinced that her grandparents simply didn’t care.
After the call, Jen and her husband decided that Eloise’s ungrateful reaction showed she might not appreciate the financial gift, so they reconsidered their plans.
A few days later, Eloise heard from her siblings about the $40,000 tradition and called her grandparents back, demanding an explanation.
“Why didn’t I get the check? You gave it to everyone else!” she accused.
Jen replied, “We felt that, given your reaction, it wasn’t appropriate to give the money.”
“Is this punishment for being upset over an air fryer?” Eloise pleaded.
“It wasn’t about the air fryer, Eloise. It was the disrespectful way you spoke to us. That’s not something we can support,” Jen said, trying to help Eloise understand.
Eloise protested, saying she’d been stressed from wedding planning and didn’t mean to be hurtful. But her grandparents held firm, hoping she’d recognize the importance of family respect over material gain.
Eloise even threatened to avoid future family gatherings, but her grandparents didn’t waver.
“We love you, and this isn’t about cutting you off. We just want you to understand why we made this decision,” they gently explained.
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